josie evans
VANCOUVER
I like reading beyond the abstract. I like pretty words and meaningful text. I’m an advanced photographer and very beginner violin player. I like psychedelics and Zen buddhism, especially when I mix the two together (I asked my roshi, she said it’s fine). My sexuality is queer, my relationships polyamorous. I like fucking men and women and people who fuck with gender. I am intensely interested in human sexuality, in both the abstract and practical.
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I’m an on-and-off academic, perpetually skirting formal institutions while still following syllabi in my bedroom.
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Beyond books and long conversations, I’m committed to inhabiting my body with care and attentiveness: keeping it moving, exploring the world through it, and staying awake to sensation.
If you value curiosity, presence, and exploration, you may enjoy meeting me.
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I have been making companionship my business for a few years now. Sexuality is important to me. I think it is under-acknowledged in our culture, under-appreciated, under-observed, under-studied, and I am so grateful for the ability to freely explore it from this unique vantage point I am able to occupy.
Over the past few years, my focus has shifted toward working with clients who value presence, intention, and genuine connection—both emotional and physical. I’m best aligned with people who are engaged in their own inner work and who approach intimacy with awareness and care. Whether our time together is part of that process or simply reflects it, I value clients who are conscious of their experiences rather than seeking escape or excess.
FAQ
What will we do together? If it’s more than a couple of hours, we’ll have a meal and make eyes at each other across the table before retiring to privacy to investigate each other behind closed doors. Longer dates will involve taking in something together alongside those activities: a museum, concert, film, scenery on a hike. I don’t want to blow your mind or anything, but there might even be kissing.
Will you like me? I understand this fear, but I promise I wouldn’t be able to do this if I didn’t get along famously with my dates. To guarantee it: be respectful, keep an open mind, work to communicate your desires and fears and all of that sexy stuff.
Why do you do this job? Do you like it? I will only work for myself or in collaboration with others. I require flexibility in scheduling and commitments. I am drawn to stigmatized positions. Not to mention, I have the libido of a teenage boy.
Do you have tattoos? Yes, I have a very small number of tattoos which compliment the curves of my body.
Are you kinky? Will you do kink with me? Kink is a sometimes-fascination of mine, but it is not interwoven with my sexuality. If you’re looking for it, I like playing with domination through duets with another provider, and if our dynamic warrants solo dives we can go from there. If, on the other hand, you’d like to witness me in a delicious subspace which you help craft, I feel safest at the sublime hands of Adrienne Kay in her beautiful dungeon. She can coach you through pressing my buttons and show you what I like while I sublimate into a puddle.
Do you travel? Both rarely and obsessively. I’m a laid back travel partner, happy in both economy and business class, more than willing to find interesting ways for us to spend our time, with a good eye for photography to document our time together in discreet ways if you so desire. Please inquire if you’d like me to join you in your city, or join you elsewhere.
I'm a numbers guy, what are yours? Gotcha, here you go: The Golden Ratio. The Boltzmann Constant. The Fibonacci Sequence. Also, I'm 5'9", and you've already looked at photos to see what my body looks like. I don't tend to fit well with people who reduce a body to a series of measurements, so it's best you go on your way.
Can somebody else join us? Absolutely. Group sex is fascinating and delicious, and I'm known in some circles as the duo queen. I have an array of duo partners in the "friends" section of my website, or I'd love to see you and your partner for an additional 100/hour.
Desires
I appreciate the art of a good gift, and I, like most, enjoy being spoiled!
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Here are some other guiding principles:
- A complex wine to share together, mocktail ingredients, cheeses and cured meats (I have celiac, please keep that in mind)
- High end lingerie. Studio Pia, Andreea Preda, Marjolaine, something I've not heard of yet.
- A book you found meaning in
- a piece of jewellery; I wear simple gold pieces.
Cash gifts are sincerely appreciated, and will be put towards my continuing education